Be Kind

There is an ancient legend about a monk who found a very precious jewel. Later the monk met a traveler, who said he was hungry and asked if he would share some of his provisions. When the monk opened his bag, the traveler saw the precious stone and, on an impulse, asked if he could have it. Amazingly, the monk gave the traveler the jewel. Overjoyed, the traveler departed quickly. However, a few days later, he came back, searching for the monk. He returned the stone and made this request:

“Please give me something more valuable, more precious than this stone. Please give me that which enabled you to give me this precious stone!”

As Christians, we know that this valuable commodity is called “kindness” and it is a natural by-product of a Spirit-filled life.


Godly Kindness will:

  • Preserve unity and community
  • Protect one another’s interests
  • Provide a safe environment for growth

Do you have a reputation for being a kind and loving person? That reputation does not come easily but it can be easily taken away and replaced with something much more unbecoming.


We can continue to develop this byproduct of the Spirit by:

  • Establishing a no-cut zone. “Instead, speaking the truth in love…” (Ephesians 4:15)
  • Establishing a no-gossip zone. “If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you.” (Matt. 18:15)
  • Establishing a no-throw zone. “If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone…” (John 8:7)

Author: John Fehlen

Child of God • Lead Pastor of West Salem Foursquare • Husband of Denise • Dad of Jordan, Joshua, Anna & Isaac